The Problem

boy in green sweater An alarming number of boys are now forced to grow up with no father in their life.

No boy ever chooses to grow up without a father. Yet MILLIONS do.

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Our Program

group of men and boysWe offer boys a community where they are accepted, where they belong. Where they can hear other boys, and men, share their stories and understand they are NOT ALONE in their struggles.

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It Works

mentor and menteeBoys are making better choices resulting in less discipline issues and higher self esteem. Hear from the Boys, Parents, and Schools and see what all the buzz is about.

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two boysTeenage years are the critical window of opportunity to empower boys to follow their dreams. Join us and invest in our boys today, and the payback will last a lifetime.



Boys to Men is a community based, group mentoring program with the firm conviction that teenage boys need mentors and role models to guide them as they take their first steps on their journey to manhood.

Teenage years are a critical time when boys make choices that affect the rest of their lives. We offer boys a safe place where they can talk about what is really going on in their lives, and a community of mentors who listen, believe in them and help them make better choices.

Latest News

btmmeetingsOur Goal = Every Middle School

4 years ago Boys to Men was in one school. Now we serve 13 schools with 14 in-school programs, 4 after-school programs and 2 evening programs.


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BTM positively influences student behavior. There are less high level infractions at school, boys are happier, have a more positive outlook on life, have improved self-esteem, and engage in less risk-taking behavior.

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100wave-web100 Waves in 12 Hours?

On September 20th, hundreds of surfers will hit the water at Mission Beach to support our boys. Please join us and take the challenge. Whether you catch 20, 50 or 100 waves, you will leave the water knowing that you made a difference.

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A Young Man Finds His Voice

What a voice it is. Watch this young man’s speech (his first) bring Marshall Faulk and a crowd of 400 to tears, and to their feet.

Give a Boy a Voice 

One weekend changed his life.

“My father left when I was 2.
I always thought he would come back. At 11, I realized he wasn’t, and I stopped caring and started getting in trouble.”

 Read Joe’s remarkable story of hope.

Principal’s Praise

4 years after Boys to Men came to their school, the Principal and Dean of Students agree… Boys to Men should be in every middle school.

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