The Problem

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No boy chooses to grow up without a dad, yet MILLIONS do. These boys are far more likely to drop out of school, abuse drugs or go to prison than boys with fathers.

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Our Program

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We offer boys a community where they can hear other boys, and men, share their stories and understand they are NOT ALONE in their struggles.

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It Works

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Boys are making better choices resulting in higher grades and less discipline issues. Hear from the Boys, Parents, and Schools and see what all the buzz is about.

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Teenage years are the critical window of opportunity to empower boys to follow their dreams. Join us and invest in our boys today, and the payback will last a lifetime.


On Saturday, September 17th, hundreds of surfers will hit the water at Mission Beach to support Boys to Men Mentoring and help boys become good men. Shaun Tomson, Damien Hobgood and their friends will be there. Don’t miss this opportunity to surf with the pros!

Click here to register for the 100 Wave Challenge!

It’s organizations like Boys to Men that President Obama wants to focus on

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USD Case Study

“BTM positively influences student behavior. Boys are happier, have a more positive outlook on life, improved self-esteem and engage in less risk-taking behavior.”

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Our Goal = Every Middle School

7 years ago Boys to Men was in one San Diego school. Today we serve 20 San Diego schools with 31 in-school programs, 1 after-school program and 3 open community groups.



I was a Bully, now I’m a Leader.

I learned to face my fears.

I joined and started changing my behavior completely.

WATCH THIS VIDEO and you will understand the POWER.

“I’ve never seen anything like this program.” Boys to Men Mentor.

It’s lonely growing up without a dad.

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